Here are 18 signs yours is a situation, not a relationship, and that it’s going nowhere.
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THEY ARE TOO BUSY TO GIVE YOU TIME
Time, when once given, cannot be taken back. Partners always give each other time in a relationship, a way of showing their care and love for each other. If your partner tells you they are too busy and will not be able to spare a couple of hours to come home and have lunch with you – they’ve already lost the care card.
You get all excited to talk to them after spending all day at work. You approach them. They’re always the first one to leave, making up otherwise lame excuses to get away from you – like being called by a friend to help them out with their car, even though you know they don’t have such close friends. Now combine these two concepts together: wanting to get away from you and caring. Do they bode well together for a relationship? They go days without talking to you, despite telling you they’d be there for you…not how it goes in a relationship where your partner truly cares.
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THEY ARE INDECISIVE
So they keep playing the cat and mouse game – just when you give up, they are all into the relationship; when you call it quits, they start thinking of getting back together. Stop letting them take such grave advantage of you and let them know relationships are not determined by such cliché aspects like coming and going when one wants to.
You get to have a say in it too. If they cannot accept this fact, then it is you who needs to leave for sure because clearly, whether you leave or stay is of no such concern to them.
There might be occasions you’ll doubt your partner or your relationship’s worth. When your partner doesn’t care about it enough, they won’t do anything to assure you everything’s good if they’re indecisive themselves. Don’t waste yourself for such a relationship.
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THEY MAKE THEMSELVES THE FOCUS OF ATTENTION
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THEY PUT THE BLAME ON YOU
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THEY TREAT YOU ARROGANTLY
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BEING DISRESPECTFUL WAY TOO MUCH
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THEY ARE NON-SUPPORTIVE
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THEY TREAT YOU LIKE AN OUTSIDER
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THEY MAKE YOU FEEL WORTHLESS
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THEIR APOLOGIES DO NOT MEAN ANYTHING
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THEY TRY TO CHANGE YOU
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ALL SEX, NO LOVE
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THEY START CHEATING ON YOU
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NO EFFORTS MADE TO PROTECT YOU
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THEY DO NOT BOTHER REMEMBERING WHAT YOU SAY
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THEY MAKE YOU CRY MORE THAN OFTEN
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THEY HAVE IT ALL TO THEMSELVES
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THEY HAVE COMMITMENT ISSUES