Want your crush to notice you?
Ah the struggles of gaining your crush’s affections. It’s quite an experience; there is indeed nothing like it. It can be exciting, intimidating, thrilling, exhilarating, and downright nerve-wracking. But everyone knows that this is a prerequisite to finding true love. You have to be willing to just dive into it. You actually have to make a move on your crush if you want to be able to manifest a relationship out of your intentions. You can’t just afford to sit back and relax while waiting for love to fall in your lap. It just doesn’t work that way. You have to put in the actual effort to gain that person’s trust and love. You do this by just making the resolve to actually do it.
But of course you can’t afford to be reckless in your actions either. You can’t just go into it without a game plan. You can’t just blurt out whatever comes to mind and think that your crush is going to end up falling in your arms. You have to be calculated in your actions. You have to be methodical. Yes, love is all about emotions, but that doesn’t mean you go into it without thinking about it. You can’t just be acting out on a whim. There are still some rules you have to abide by.
While there is no sure way to absolutely win over a person’s love, there are a few tips that you can follow to greatly improve your chances. And that’s all that love ever is. It’s about taking chances with other people in the hopes that the results turn out in your favor. It’s about taking risks together with the best of intentions. So here are a few ways that you can actually get your crush to like you back.
1. Stop acting like someone that you’re actually not.
You should always just be yourself. Remember that honesty is a very important aspect in a relationship especially during the early stages. You never want to be lying about who you are because you will end up having to maintain that lie all throughout your relationship. That’s why the best course of action for you would be to just stay true to yourself. Besides, your crush should only like you for you and not for anything else. If you’ll try to act fake, it’s going to emanate right from your face.
2. Get out of your bubble every once in a while.
You can’t just make it all about yourself. Of course, you should stay true to who you are. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t expose yourself to other things as well. You have to be able to accommodate the little quirks and interests of your crush. You have to show interest in the things that your crush is passionate about. It shows that you are a tolerant and open-minded person who has no trouble adapting to the people you surround yourself with.
3. Don’t be passive in your pursuit of love.
You can’t be lazy about it. You can’t afford to be passive. Don’t expect love to just fall right out of the sky and into your lap. You can’t expect your crush to like you in return when you’re just sitting there refusing to actually make an effort. Take your crush out on dates. Make an effort to communicate with your crush. Show your crush some affectionate gestures that actually express your interests and intentions.
4. Make sure that you are still living out your own life to its fullest.
Remember that no one is ever going to want to like you if you don’t know how to take care of yourself. Show your crush just how awesome it would be to be in a relationship with you by living your life to its absolute fullest. Make sure that you have plenty of good things going on in your life and your crush is going to see that about you. But again, remember to make sure that you don’t exaggerate anything about your life. Just be yourself; but be the best possible version of yourself.
5. Be mature about it.
It takes two mature individuals to make a relationship work. You are going to have to let go of your childish philosophies if you want to find real love. You can’t be coy and immature about courtship. You have to be serious and mature about it. Show your crush that you are a legitimate candidate for love by acting like a real adult who is actually ready to take on the responsibilities of being in a relationship.
6. Be confident and don’t let your nerves get in the way.
Just be confident. Be proud of who you are as a person and show your crush that you are actually a person who is worth taking note of. Don’t let your nerves and insecurities get the most of you. Don’t succumb to your personal fears. Just be sure of yourself and find solace in your redeeming qualities.
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